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Why do we go wrong about our friends or our enemies？ Sometimes what people say hides their real meaning. And if we don' t really listen closely we miss the feeling behind the words. Suppose someone tells you, "You' re a lucky dog." That' s being friendly. But "lucky dog？" There' s a bit of envy in those words. Maybe he doesn' t see it himself. But bringing in the "dog" puts you down a little. What he may be saying is that he doesn' t think you deserve your luck.
"Just think of all the things you have to be thankful for is another noise that says one thing and means another. It could mean that the speaker is trying to get you to see your problem as part of your life as a whole. But is he？ Wrapped up in this phrase is the thought that your problem isn' t important. It' s telling you to think of all the starving people in the world when you haven't got a date for Saturday night.
How can you tell the real meaning behind someone' s words？ One way is to take a good look at the person talking. Do his words fit the way he looks？ Does what he says agree with the tone of voice？ His posture？ The look in his eyes？ Stop and think. The minute you spend thinking about the real meaning of what people say to you may save another mistake.
This passage is mainly about ______.
A．how to interpret what people say
B．what to do when. you listen to others talking
C．how to avoid mistakes when you communicate with people
D．why we go wrong with people sometimes
What does the speaker say the listeners should do？
A．Take a trip to the Mid-west.
B．Go outside, and enjoy the weather.
C．Take their children to the nearest swimming pools.
D．Take enough water.
阅读下列短文，然后根据短文的内容从 58～61 小题的四个选择项中选出最佳的一项。
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Have you ever argued with your loved ones over simple misunderstandings（误解）？Little wonder. We often believe we're more skillful in getting our point across than we actually are，according to Boza Keysar，a professor at the University of Chicago. In his recent study，speakers tried to express their meanings using unclear sentences. Speakers who thought listeners understood were wrong nearly half the time. Here‘s some good advice to reduce misunderstanding：
（1）Don't trust what you see from the listener. Listeners often nod，look at you or say“uhhuh”to be polite or move the conversation along. But it‘s easy to consider these as signs of understanding.
（2）Train the editor（编辑）in your head. If you say，“Beth discusses her problems with her husband，”it's not clear whether she‘s talking to her husband or about him. Try instead，“Beth talks to her husband about her problems.”or“Beth talks to others about the problems with her husband.”
（3）Ask listeners to repeat your message. Introduce your request by saying“I want to be sure I said that right.”Questions like“How does that sound？”or“Does that make sense？”may also work.
（4）Listen well. When on the receiving end，ask questions to be sure you're on the same page. After all，it isn‘t just the speaker's job to make his speech understood.
第 58 题 Why does the writer give us the advice？
A．We're not skillful enough to make clear sentences.
B．Misunderstanding is damaging our normal lives.
C．Misunderstanding occurs now and then.
D．It's impolite to say NO to others.
The writer suggests that when talking to others,the speaker should ______.
A．know that listeners will show him that they understand his words
B．express himself clearly even when he sees signs of understanding
C．notice listener's signs of understanding
D．look directly into his listener's eyes
A.indy can not cross the street
B.indy tells the speaker to cross the street
C.indy should be careful when crossing the street
A．help the speaker to control the audience
B．help the speaker to gain audience interest and esteem
C．help the speaker to know whether he is talking too much about a certain point
D．help the speaker to analyze his audience when he is beginning his speech
It is what you do rather than what you say ______matters.
A. what
B. when
C. that
D. how
______ he come, what you say to him？
A. If, will
B. Should, would
C. When, would
D. Would, do
